enjoying the moments.

tyler and i were sitting on the couch last, watching some tv, unwinding. i kept thinking, why aren't we doing something? we aren't we doing more? last weekend we went to bed before eleven, twice. so i asked the man, what's going on, why aren't we being adventurous, enjoying every minute of our lives together?

that's just it.

we have the rest of our lives to be together, and at the same time, we don't. i truly expect to be with tyler for the rest of my life, in sickness and in health. however, there is never a promise of tomorrow. it is not a given. i think we can be reminded of that in times of tragedy, such as the Boston Marathon yesterday. the people that lost their lives. never thought that would be the last day.

so yes, we have the rest of our lives. but we also have only today. every day doesn't need to be a raging party, but it should be enjoyed. even if that just means a tickle fight before bed, or going out for ice cream.

Cheezin' Hard

tomorrow is not a given. today is truly a gift, so remember to smile and lift your chin up.